And that was ok. That wasn't why I wrote.
My blog wasn't something I promoted or even really told people about. Only those who shared an interest in blogging generally stopped by, or a friend or two that kept caught up on the freak show that was sometimes my life.
After a few years went by, my mom discovered I wrote (long story) and inadvertently shared my blog with most of her email contacts.
So, in return, I did some quick house cleaning to make sure that I hadn't wrote something that would embarrass someone...and called it good. I was ok with embarrassing myself, just not embarrassing others. My mom also started printing out books of each year's blog posts and putting them into hardbound books and giving them to me to keep.
What began as a thoughtless, mindless avenue to vent, brag, relive and review became a tangible item to scrutinize and dissect. Coincidentally (or not...), I also stopped writing as much.
Then, Sept. 2014, my husband was diagnosed with leukemia. I couldn't process it all. My life turned into one that I didn't want to live and yet, there I was. And there he was. And our kids? Well, there they were too, being shuffled between home and hospital and living with their aunt and uncle. I started to write again in an effort to keep everyone "in the loop" but it transformed into a place where I would try and process the current situation, and many times I felt as if someone else had done the writing. I would re-read what was written and try to take my own advice.
Many times the advice that I "gave" myself included encouragement to get back out into life and live. Slowly, little by little, that has been just what I have been doing. And it feels good.
I don't want my kids to look back through these hard bound books that contain snapshots of our lives and someday believe that our days were devoid of any normalcy and happiness from September 2014 on.
They weren't. They aren't.
Although, as Steven admitted this weekend, worst case scenario thoughts are always there and bring fear and anxiety daily. The "what ifs" can not be escaped. Day to day life often brings with it thoughts of the future and ours is still very uncertain. Steven confessed to wondering about, and worrying about, the ramifications if blasts were to show up when he has blood drawn, or if leukemia was once again detected when he has his bone marrow biopsy in two weeks.
And I worry too.
I always will. I have written frequently about my anxiety and worries and the, sometimes, crippling fear, but I haven't written much about living these last two years.
And we are living. Thank God, we are all, still here, living.
I have decided that living is just as good of a reason to write, and record, as worrying is. Probably a better one, actually.
So, consider yourself warned. Although I might not share all my posts on Facebook, if you happen onto my blog, the content might just be that of someone who is living this crazy life they were given...and trying to make the best of it.
After all, aren't we all just trying to do just that?
You have all made living this life a little bit easier, and for that, I thank you.